Healthy relationships are built on trust, honesty, and integrity. For many couples, their relational journey can be “the best of times and the worst of times.” While commitments, promises, and wedding vows promise to love each other “for better or for worse,” no couple stands on their wedding day hoping their relationship fails or will experience infidelity of any kind. And yet reality, statistics, and experience reveal an alarming number of couples find themselves impacted by the devastating news no one ever wants to receive. Whether through discovery or disclosure, a couple finds themselves stunned, shaken, and trying to make sense out of the betrayal trauma of sexual infidelity. These are indeed uncharted, murky waters. The “white knight” has fallen off his horse. The romantic dream has turned into a traumatic nightmare. Now the betrayed partner sleepwalks through the debris at ground zero of their most significant relationship, questioning everything, revising their relationship history, feeling a “buyer’s remorse,” and grappling with the question of “should I stay, or should I go?” The one who committed the sexual betrayal trauma through pornography or acting out sexually with other people is often in denial, despair, still hiding some of their secrets, or trying to gaslight their partner by attempting to make them doubt their own reality. And yes, for many who have been unfaithful, there is a true “broken and contrite heart,” humbled by their infidelity, and wanting to end the chaos and secrets, longing for healing and recovery. The “porndemic” and soaring statistics of sexual infidelity are staggering. Christian men and women, including pastors, are among the alarmingly high numbers impacted by the chaos of sexual unfaithfulness. We need help and we need it now! Authors, speakers, and renowned therapists Roane and Eva Hunter are the best of the best as first responders and skilled surgeons for those who are in the intensive care unit of sexual betrayal trauma. Roane and Eva are both Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSATs), are World Conference speakers for the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC), respected workshop leaders, and lead a thriving counseling practice in Mississippi. This book is a game changer! Here you have a detailed, proven road map that offers the encouragement that Roane and Eva provide and more help than you have problems! Trust is rebuilt over time plus provable, reliable behavior. In Sex, God, & Chaos, you will experience the safety, wisdom, guidance, and hope from two fellow travelers who have walked through their own “valley of the shadow of death” and are here to show you the way to your own story of being redeemed.